Now let us talk about Masculine Energy? Well it complements Feminine Energy. Where Feminine Energy is more receptive, Masculine Energy is more dynamic. It is more energetic whereas Feminine Energy is more
passive. It is more direct whereas Feminine Energy is a bit more tactful. Masculine people tend to say what they want and get it. Sometimes this can appear to be abrupt. Feminine people tend to be more tactful and this can appear to be wishy-washy. As a feminine person, I tend to look for a masculine man to bring out the best in me and to help me where I am lacking. A masculine person will tend to make decisions and be in control. This can be a good thing if the partner is more indecisive and wants somebody to take control of them. I hope I am not portraying Masculine people in a negative light. Both energies can be very positive if expressed in the right way. Post your ideas here.
passive. It is more direct whereas Feminine Energy is a bit more tactful. Masculine people tend to say what they want and get it. Sometimes this can appear to be abrupt. Feminine people tend to be more tactful and this can appear to be wishy-washy. As a feminine person, I tend to look for a masculine man to bring out the best in me and to help me where I am lacking. A masculine person will tend to make decisions and be in control. This can be a good thing if the partner is more indecisive and wants somebody to take control of them. I hope I am not portraying Masculine people in a negative light. Both energies can be very positive if expressed in the right way. Post your ideas here.
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my dear fellow-girl Lesley,
as i put up on masculine energy as such already from my boy-perspective earlier in your blog, i just want to comment on one aspect of your most recent posting: control.
As i understood your posting, you assign control rather to a masculine person, who's masculine energy is dominant.
i have to disagree on that totally, if understood correctly regarding this.
Of course, one can decide to hand over control to somebody else. And of course somebody can decide to take control. But this has from my point of view nothing to do with the source of energy, might it be masculine or feminine. It simply cannot assigned to any of these.
From my humble point of view, taking control is a question of the level of energy itself, regardless if it is feminine or masculine. If it is high, this individual will take control. If it is low, this individual will take over control.
Please understand myself correctly: This is not judging in any way. Some people are very eager to give up control, and it is perfectly ok. These i might call subs. They need to be charged and challenged. And although their energy level might be low, this does not mean that they are weak. Such individuals can be very strong, and they better are, as they might have to endure very intense training by the one's they give control. And there are people who are on high energy level. These i might call Tops. Their need is to challenge and take control, for the benefit of the sub, fulfilling his or her cravings and needs.
There are several examples to prove this. Couples with tough husbands, but submitting to their wives. Even so-called subs, topping from the bottom, as their so-called Top is lower in the energy-level as the sub actually is. And this is all common and real, unfortunately.
But the main point i want to make here is: Do not mix up masculine and feminine energy with the common stereotype of controlling and being in control, as assigned to typical masculine behaviour for the first and typical feminine behaviour for the second. It is just not true.
Nevertheless thank you for your posting though - as it revealed some fact to me that i was so long thinking about for my own case: The reason for my problem to find a worthy real-life Master, who i would really accept as such and gladly would hand over control over me. It becomes clear to me that i search for a Master who's energy level is clearly higher than mine. And although i would love to have a male Master for that, if the energy level would prove to be higher, i most probably would also subdue to a Mistress who does prove so energy-wise. But since my own energy-level is just so very high, such person is hard to find for me, which is my dilemma. Master Chirenon really proved to me that He stands above me energy-level-wise, and therefore i am so grateful to be his online-boy. But unfortunately it is just so clear to me that this will exclusively be an online-relationship only, with the typical disadvantages attached, even though i am not complaining about that at all, but feel lucky to be under His so caring and wise wing.
i am not at all a person to throw my control over to someone. i even fear that i would be topping from the bottom the very time i sense i have the chance for it, as the energy-level of my "Top" was lower than mine. And from that time on, i would have real problems respecting Him any more. Then all fun would be just spoiled.
Sorry for more telling about me than about your posting though. And please do not take it in any way as an offense. As the humble but yet so energized boy that i am, i just wanted to share my view, and i humbly hope you will benefit from it.
Kind regards,
your fellow-boy Keuschling
my dear fellow-girl Lesley,
i have a different view on the aspect of control. i think it cannot clearly be assigned to any of the two, masculine or feminine energy. In my opinion, the cumulative energy-level of an individual regardless of the physical or spiritual gender is determining who actually is in control.
Let me give you examples for better understanding.
The typical stereotype of society is that the Man (with dominant masculine energy) is stronger than the Woman (with dominating feminine energy). So the couple will be ultimatively lead by the Man, controlling almost every aspect of their lifes, making the decisions.
In a femdom-relationship (not necessarily a BDSM-relationship though), the Man's total energy level (sum of his masculine and feminine energy) is lower than the woman's total energy. But let's assume that for the woman the feminine energy is still the dominant one. So what will happen? From my point of view, the woman then will be in control - though the man (with lower total energy level, but dominant masculine energy) seems to make the decisions still. But as he is still on a lower total energy level, his energy will be bent by the higher total energy level of the woman. Bent into the direction the woman wants, by more or less tactful but very obvious guidance.
There are of course many thinkable scenarios, which cannot be covered shortly here. But my main point is: The one with the higher total energy-level will be in control, regardless of the gender, role, main energy-form and other settings.
Kind regards,
your fellow-boy Keuschling
My fellow-boy Keuschling, your points are very valid. I slipped in not thinking of a FemDom relationship. Thank you for your insights. You make this blog so much better. I guess in my case, I can only relate to those with a submissive nature. I appreciate your input. Please keep reading and providing your insights.
Your sweet fellow-girl Lesley
my sweet fellow-girl Lesley,
from my point of view, submissiveness and dominance are even another dimension yet, also having nothing to do with masculine or feminine energy levels or their proportion inside an individual.
i would translate submissiveness as the hunger for power and energy, wherever it comes from, while dominance is the state of someone wanting to feed his or her energy to someone else, maybe by the wish to see its effects.
This of course can only work if the submissive's total energy level is lower than the dominant's one. As energy will flow from a higher level to a lower level only, providing dynamic by its flow.
you see, i think about that a lot. As you know i am a very energetic and powerful boy, with a high total energy level. But yet i am submissive, hungry for energy, being just a boy only. And this is my personal dilemma, as it is hard for me to find a dominant person with even higher energy level than mine, to submit to for me and to charge from.
my dearest online-Master Chirenon has proven to me that He has an even higher energy-level than me already. What made it easy for me to submit and subdue to Him, following His superb Rules for boys like me, which moreover just fit me so perfectly. But it will remain an online situation exclusively. And i am still searching very hard for my real-life Master (or Mistress).
Kind regards,
your fellow-boy Keuschling
My sweet fellow-boy Keuschling, I hope you find the right Master or Mistress, whichever way you may go. Submissive and Dominance are different than masculine and feminine, but traditionally males are more dominant and females are more submissive but as with every thing in life there are some females who are dominant and some males who are submissive. Also I think in most of us there is bit of both dominance and submissiveness. As for me I am more on the submissive side and would therefore like to find a man who is more dominant.
Your sweet fellow-girl Lesley
My sweet fellow-boy Keuschling, I am sorry I missed the earlier comment, because it was spammed. I will answer not. I read your views and no your voicing an opinion other than mine does not upset me. I like to read other view points, sometimes it helps me modify mine. Don't apologize for bringing up some of your personal life in your comment. I don't mind and it helps me to know you better.
Your sweet fellow-girl Lesley
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